Homestay in Hakusan
The great thing about being in a foreign country with an program like JET is that they organize all these neat opportunities for you. This past weekend, I did a "homestay" where a Japanese family generously offered to take me into their homes for a day and basically show me what a typical day for them is. This offered me an excellent opportunity to see how real people (as opposed to T.V. people or people in textbooks) live.
I was fortunate enough to luck out, and get paired with the best family ever. Here's a brief timeline of what I did:
1. Arrive in Hakusan with other people doing homestay.
2. Have BBQ with everyone and meet family.
3. Sing Canadian national anthem into microphone with 4 (?) other Canucks while waving the Canadian flag (they wanted a brief presentation on something Canadian).
4. Play BINGO for prizes that everyone had brought from their home countries. My and Lisa's contribution was an imported bottle of Maple Syrup that we bought in Japan at a foreign food store. It was authentically Canadian, though (even down to the bilingual labelling), and after peeling off the Japanese labels, no one was the wiser.
5. Go to family's home.
6. Take disc out of bag, and get walked through neighbourhood to the local park.
7. Find that it's a park(ing lot). Did I mention the whole lack-of-space thing yet?
8. Have disc mangled by two kids and the pavement.
9. Turn into human jungle gym within 2 hours of meeting the two kids in the family.
10. Dad comes home.
11. Unload rice from back of truck.
12. Drive to ("real") park; play baseball.
13. Amaze family with frisbee. I don't think they'd ever seen one before, much less seen one thrown "flic" and "hammer" style.
14. Go to onsen (Japanese hot water-type bath). Picture a bunch of naked men relaxing in various hot-water pools. There's also a sauna, and one "cold" water bath, which is apparently too cold for most people here to tolerate for more than a few minutes, but I was perfectly happy to chill out for a while and relax in it.
15. Go back to family home feeling rather refreshed.
16. Have excellent meal cooked for me that was completely vegetarian (although they added meat to theirs). The main dish was okonomiaki, and is kind of like a pancake without the dough, and lots of vegetables. It was yummy. One unfortunate note here is the realization that some Japanese households are still very "traditional" in many respects; the dad wanted me to sit and drink beer, but I wanted to learn how to cook. So, I went into the kitchen to help (the mom), and the dad came in too. He tried making rice balls after I did, and I later found out that that was the first time he had ever done so. Also, while on the subject of food, I guess some people here don't see the need for dental hygeine when you're young (because you'll lose your teeth anyways, I guess), and as a result, the two kids' mouths were full of cavities.
17. Eat. Drink beer.
18. Eat more. Drink more beer.
19. It's crazy how much better my Japanese gets (or maybe just how much better I think it gets) when I've had a few drinks. Also, it gets easier to understand everyone else's English too.
20. Play "guess the sound" game (see picture below).
21. Go to sleep. In this household, everyone sleeps in the same room, with a bunch of beds pushed together. One very intense experience was in the middle of the night, the youngest child just started screaming at the top of his lungs, and thrashing wildly (managing to land a few good blows on yours truly). At this point, the mom wakes up, says ONE syllable, and the kid completely shuts up, and goes back to bed. I guess the kid must have been having a nightmare or something, but still. I need to learn what that one syllable is, and use it on the kids in my classes.
22. Wake up.
23. Eat breakfast. Again, extremely yummy.
24. Get furnished with gifts, including: bag of rice (the grandfather grows rice), dragon doll-type thing, food wrappers (so I know what to buy at the grocery store, a dozen eggs (the dad works with chickens), and leftovers from the night before. And all I gave them was some maple syrup, and some maple cookies.
25. Get driven back to some building, where there was traditional Japanese stuff going on. I participated in a tea ceremony, made some wicked origami, and wrote out some calligraphy in hiragana (Japanese characters). I wrote out "arigato" (thank-you) and gave it to my host family.
26. Other things going on that I saw, but didn't participate in, included kimono dress-up, shadow sketching, yukata (Japanese guitar) playing, and listening to the Japanese harp (I forget the name of it).
27. Get driven back to the train station, take train home.
In a nutshell, that's it. Lots of other stuff has happened since then, but I figure this is enough for now. I need to start leading a more boring life so I won't have to type out as much stuff. Maybe I'll start this weekend.
Hope all of you are well. I miss you all.
a bientot